Some things I have learned...

if you are not willing to accept help when it is offered, then don't expect to get it when you want it...

never question another person's finances or assume they can afford something that they cannot. And when they tell you they cannot afford something take them at their word and don't just assume that they'll pay you what you want anyways. That does NOTmake a promise or an agreement just because in your head you felt they should pay that amount...

if you don't expect a lot of people, then they can't disappoint you...

sometimes silence really is golden...

just because someone is family does not mean you can't hurt, offend, or upset them. So be careful what you say and how you say it to your loved ones. They might not be here tomorrow...

give people the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes they'll surprise you and really mean well...

and finally, honesty really is the best policy.